Not Asking for It
The other day I was biking to work when this happened:
I wouldn’t think anything of it if it happened once. But I’ve noticed my attire seems to prompt certain responses in other road users.
How do I know it’s not just an off day? Because I have the ability to change clothes.
Some days I’m this cyclist:
And later that same evening I might be this cyclist:
I’m called out on my appearance daily as I go about my business on public streets without the cover of a car.
Even “ordinary” attire has drawbacks.
It’s no surprise that most days I find myself dressing to get the reaction I want when I bike. Or at least the most benign reaction.
But no matter what I’m wearing it’s still just me: complex, multi-dimensional, and in awesome shape.
My rainbow legwarmers are my secret weapon on the road. People LOVE them. It’s funny how many people seek to interact (usually positively) with me when I wear them.
Wear something brightly colored for visibility, and comfy because it’s comfy, and don’t overthink it. Haters gonna hate. Might as well be comfy.
Love your perspective!!
Hehe I identify with formal dress the most when I’m wearing lolita fashion or mori girl.
My solution to ‘sporty dress’ is to have a bright artificial flower tucked into my helmet. Three studies have shown that riders who are identifiable as female get marginally better passing distances. I’ll claim any inch I can get.